troublemaker skrev:Det irriterer mig grænseløst, at folk der har stået i kø en hel weekend sælger playstation 4 + spil på DBA med en minimumfortjeneste på 500kr.

Det irriterer mig, at de slet ikke har tænkt sig at bruge lortet, når vi er nogle som faktisk godt ville have købt skidtet til 1999kr hvis der var nogle tilbage. Folk er seriøst alt for grådige. At man gider vente dagevis/timevis på at købe en playstation og sælge den videre kun med det formål at tjene nogle håndører på det fatter jeg simpelthen ikke.

Men fair nok, at folk så vil sælge skidtet videre, men at de så reklamerer med at det er "fejlkøb" er fucking nederen. Sig det som det er, jeg har købt den med det formål at tjene lidt!

Min mor havde en oplevelse, som jeg altid husker på, når jeg irriteres over unødig agression eller på anden måde overdrevne reaktioner i det offentlige rum.

Hun kørte for år siden ofte med S-toget til Nørreport Station. En dag sad der en far med to børn. Børnene råbte, skreg og tyranniserede på alle tænkelige måder kupeen. Ekstremt opmærksomhedssøgende ud fra devisen hellere negativ opmærksomhed, end ingen. De var på alle måder all over the place. Og det ikke i positiv forstand. Faren forholdt sig grotesk flegmatisk. Sagde intet. Ignorerede børnene helt. Min mor bed sig i læben for ikke at spørge faderen, om han mon ikke skulle rette opmærksomhed mod børnene. Kun tilfældigheder gjorde, at hun ikke fik givet udtryk derfor. Efter noget tid gav det et ryk i faderen og han henvendte sig pludseligt til min mor med følgende ord: "Undskyld vi larmer sådan og hvis vi generer, men vi er på vej hjem fra Hillerød Hospital, hvor min kone og børnenes mor lige er død."

Vi skal hele tiden huske ikke at dømme hinanden for hurtigt. Vi kender sjældent tilstrækkeligt til bevæggrunde og baggrunde.

A Health Paradigm Shift, Part 3:
The Power to Change!

The idea of experiencing a health paradigm shift can be unsettling. But here’s the story Stephen Covey tells of a paradigm shift he experienced.

"I remember a mini-Paradigm Shift I experienced one Sunday morning on a subway in New York. People were sitting quietly -- some reading newspapers, some lost in thought, some resting with their eyes closed. It was a calm, peaceful scene. Then suddenly, a man and his children entered the subway car. The children were so loud and rambunctious that instantly the whole climate changed.

"The man sat down next to me and closed his eyes, apparently oblivious to the situation. The children were yelling back and forth, throwing things, even grabbing people's papers. It was very disturbing. And yet, the man sitting next to me did nothing.

"It was difficult not to feel irritated. I could not believe that he could be so insensitive to let his children run wild like that and do nothing about it, taking no responsibility at all. It was easy to see that everyone else on the subway felt irritated, too. So finally, with what I felt was unusual patience and restraint, I turned to him and said, "Sir, your children are really disturbing a lot of people. I wonder if you couldn't control them a little more?"

"The man lifted his gaze as if to come to a consciousness of the situation for the first time and said softly, 'Oh, you're right. I guess I should do something about it. We just came from the hospital where their mother died about an hour ago. I don't know what to think, and I guess they don't know how to handle it either.'

"Can you imagine what I felt at that moment? My paradigm shifted. Suddenly I saw things differently, I felt differently, I behaved differently. My irritation vanished. I didn't have to worry about controlling my attitude or my behavior; my heart was filled with the man's pain. Feelings of sympathy and compassion flowed freely. "Your wife just died? Oh, I'm so sorry. Can you tell me about it? What can I do to help?" Everything changed in an instant.

"Many people experience a similar fundamental shift in thinking when they face a life-threatening crisis and suddenly see their priorities in a different light, or when they suddenly step into a new role, such as that of husband or wife, parent or grandparent, manager or leader.

"It becomes obvious that if we want to make relatively minor changes in our lives, we can perhaps appropriately focus on our attitudes and behaviors. But if we want to make significant, quantum change, we need to work on our basic paradigms.

"In the words of Thoreau, 'For every thousand hacking at the leaves of evil, there is one striking at the root.' We can only achieve quantum improvements in our lives as we quit hacking at the leaves of attitude and behavior and get to work on the root, the paradigms from which our attitudes and behaviors flow."

(from Stephen Covey's book, The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People)

Comedian skrev:Sidder og stener FB, hvor jeg blandt andet følger Lasse Rimmer. Derfor dukker denne historie op:

https://www.facebook.com/malene.trockhe ... 2101384628

Min mor havde en oplevelse, som jeg altid husker på, når jeg irriteres over unødig agression eller på anden måde overdrevne reaktioner i det offentlige rum.

Hun kørte for år siden ofte med S-toget til Nørreport Station. En dag sad der en far med to børn. Børnene råbte, skreg og tyranniserede på alle tænkelige måder kupeen. Ekstremt opmærksomhedssøgende ud fra devisen hellere negativ opmærksomhed, end ingen. De var på alle måder all over the place. Og det ikke i positiv forstand. Faren forholdt sig grotesk flegmatisk. Sagde intet. Ignorerede børnene helt. Min mor bed sig i læben for ikke at spørge faderen, om han mon ikke skulle rette opmærksomhed mod børnene. Kun tilfældigheder gjorde, at hun ikke fik givet udtryk derfor. Efter noget tid gav det et ryk i faderen og han henvendte sig pludseligt til min mor med følgende ord: "Undskyld vi larmer sådan og hvis vi generer, men vi er på vej hjem fra Hillerød Hospital, hvor min kone og børnenes mor lige er død."

Vi skal hele tiden huske ikke at dømme hinanden for hurtigt. Vi kender sjældent tilstrækkeligt til bevæggrunde og baggrunde.

Hvorfor irriterer det mig?

Fordi det er løgn. Løgn, løgn, løgn. Det er en fuldstændig præcis genfortælling af en historie fra "The 7 habits of highly effective people", netop med det formål at illustrere, at man kan få folk til at beskue hændelser fra mere end én vinkel.


http://www.naturalhealthstrategies.com/ ... power.html

A Health Paradigm Shift, Part 3:
The Power to Change!

The idea of experiencing a health paradigm shift can be unsettling. But here’s the story Stephen Covey tells of a paradigm shift he experienced.

"I remember a mini-Paradigm Shift I experienced one Sunday morning on a subway in New York. People were sitting quietly -- some reading newspapers, some lost in thought, some resting with their eyes closed. It was a calm, peaceful scene. Then suddenly, a man and his children entered the subway car. The children were so loud and rambunctious that instantly the whole climate changed.

"The man sat down next to me and closed his eyes, apparently oblivious to the situation. The children were yelling back and forth, throwing things, even grabbing people's papers. It was very disturbing. And yet, the man sitting next to me did nothing.

"It was difficult not to feel irritated. I could not believe that he could be so insensitive to let his children run wild like that and do nothing about it, taking no responsibility at all. It was easy to see that everyone else on the subway felt irritated, too. So finally, with what I felt was unusual patience and restraint, I turned to him and said, "Sir, your children are really disturbing a lot of people. I wonder if you couldn't control them a little more?"

"The man lifted his gaze as if to come to a consciousness of the situation for the first time and said softly, 'Oh, you're right. I guess I should do something about it. We just came from the hospital where their mother died about an hour ago. I don't know what to think, and I guess they don't know how to handle it either.'

"Can you imagine what I felt at that moment? My paradigm shifted. Suddenly I saw things differently, I felt differently, I behaved differently. My irritation vanished. I didn't have to worry about controlling my attitude or my behavior; my heart was filled with the man's pain. Feelings of sympathy and compassion flowed freely. "Your wife just died? Oh, I'm so sorry. Can you tell me about it? What can I do to help?" Everything changed in an instant.

"Many people experience a similar fundamental shift in thinking when they face a life-threatening crisis and suddenly see their priorities in a different light, or when they suddenly step into a new role, such as that of husband or wife, parent or grandparent, manager or leader.

"It becomes obvious that if we want to make relatively minor changes in our lives, we can perhaps appropriately focus on our attitudes and behaviors. But if we want to make significant, quantum change, we need to work on our basic paradigms.

"In the words of Thoreau, 'For every thousand hacking at the leaves of evil, there is one striking at the root.' We can only achieve quantum improvements in our lives as we quit hacking at the leaves of attitude and behavior and get to work on the root, the paradigms from which our attitudes and behaviors flow."

(from Stephen Covey's book, The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People)

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Tintin skrev:Havde en date i dag, men lillepigen har lige skrevet hun har feber.

Hun har godt nok foreslået at ses en anden dag, men jeg er fanme skeptisk ved sådan noget, når de først aflyser.

Tintin skrev:Havde en date i dag, men lillepigen har lige skrevet hun har feber.

Hun har godt nok foreslået at ses en anden dag, men jeg er fanme skeptisk ved sådan noget, når de først aflyser.

zalcos skrev:

Tintin skrev:Havde en date i dag, men lillepigen har lige skrevet hun har feber.

Hun har godt nok foreslået at ses en anden dag, men jeg er fanme skeptisk ved sådan noget, når de først aflyser.

Hvis hun foreslår en anden dag kan det sagtens være hun har nedprioriteret dig til fordel for noget andet. Men hvad fanden, hun vil stadig ses, så bare tag den cool og sig all right. Ingen grund til at gå i små sko. Det er også overskud at tro på hvad hun siger

EWhite skrev:BCAA uden smag. Jeg havde læst, at det skulle smage dårligt, men jeg var lige ved at spytte det ud over det hele da jeg i dag tog en god solid slurk. FØJ!!! Jeg er absolut ikke sart og spiser alt, men det smager da godt nok helt ekstraordinært ringe!!

Asomugha skrev:At folk lader sig forarge så gevaldigt fordi Fakta har valgt at sænke prisen på mælk. Hold da op et ramaskrig der lyder på deres facebook side.

awesome skrev:

Asomugha skrev:At folk lader sig forarge så gevaldigt fordi Fakta har valgt at sænke prisen på mælk. Hold da op et ramaskrig der lyder på deres facebook side.

Synes da ellers det lyder som en god idé...:-D

Hvad er folk sure over?

awesome skrev:

Asomugha skrev:At folk lader sig forarge så gevaldigt fordi Fakta har valgt at sænke prisen på mælk. Hold da op et ramaskrig der lyder på deres facebook side.

Synes da ellers det lyder som en god idé...:-D

Hvad er folk sure over?

Tintin skrev:Reklamerne fra spilnu - HOLD nu op hvor jeg kan blive irretabel af at høre på sådan en gang pladder fra hvad der virker til at være sociale andenrangsborgere.

Mharritz skrev:

Tintin skrev:Reklamerne fra spilnu - HOLD nu op hvor jeg kan blive irretabel af at høre på sådan en gang pladder fra hvad der virker til at være sociale andenrangsborgere.

Er vild med deres reklamer. De rammer deres målgruppe pisse godt med dem, for hvad tror du deres målgruppe netop er ;)